The G

Ladies, here is one just for you. Well, I suppose it is also the the men - grab your pen and paper and take some notes! 

Ladies, have you ever laid with a man or woman, started to kiss, as the moment intensifies to wanting the volcano within you to just… explode! Meanwhile, he’s caressingly your erect and sensitive clit, but you just want to scream, “Stick it in!” Then he shoves one finger in… then two. You anticipate the feeling of pure bliss… but it never comes. He just maintains at the clit - boring! Then when he finally fingers you, he just pokes his damned fingers in and out and it actually starts to hurt more than anything. You long for so much more than this! So you start flickering at your own clit, to see if that helps. Personally, I like to mix things up, by having my clit rubbed, interchanging from clit to inside. I prefer to start with clit play and once I’m really horny, then he can continue fingering me inside until I come. If anything, I can help him by rubbing my own clit. 

One thing I’ve learned to NOT BE AFRAID TO GUIDE HIS HANDS AND FINGERS! Be the voice that, believe me, he wants to hear so bad, as you beg for mercy, “Yes, like that.” Or “Like this, babe… faster… slower…” A lot of times, us girls get a little shy. I know I did. We need to be more vocal and lead the way. Sometimes, they simply don’t know to bend those fingers to point up, aiming right at your G Spot, once they’ve inserted their fingers into you. Then from there, it’s repetitive movements - up, down, up down. Start slow and work your way up. Listen to her body - it will tell you a lot! For instance, her vaginal walls become more expandable and well lubricated. You’ll feel this balloon type thing that fills with squirt, the more excited and aroused she becomes. Once she’s excited, give her your cock! Shove it deep inside her without remorse, whilst holding her hands together as a form of restraint. Show her who’s boss and give it to her good. Play with her clit. Play with the speed - go slow then hard and repeat. This will tease her. If she’s having a hard time coming, slow it down. Tease her with slow, deep and sensual strokes. Sometimes, you can’t just go rough and expect her to come with just being rough. Don’t get me wrong - rough sex is spectacular! But there are times when women need to feel cared for, take things a little slow. After a while, all of those feelings will suddenly just erupt in a great sea of pure bliss! If you’ve done it right, you’ll certainly know.

Good luck all!